Good prioritizing in a routine, but the argument becomes..is "4 minutes" (4, 15, 1hr) / 1 week a quarter adequate? How about daily several hours with the people you love? Her opinion?
I think it's understood that by these rules you ensure the minimal time spent with the important people.
Neither the 4 minutes a day, nor the 1 week a quarter are adequate, they just build the low threshhold in stressful times.
Good prioritizing in a routine, but the argument becomes..is "4 minutes" (4, 15, 1hr) / 1 week a quarter adequate? How about daily several hours with the people you love? Her opinion?