Good call. That's actually what I meant, didn't realize what I was quoting. The awareness is so important- it's a lesson I always seem to be re-learning, because you don't realize how many different ways people are taking cues from you.

The most accessible examples are the industry "gurus" whose everyday lives and everyday mundane thoughts people seem to be so interested in. When they say "people look to a leader" they really mean it - they are looking at you whether or not you feel like you are actively leading at that moment.